It’s literally very close to home, and the chances of discovery are high.Īffairs can lead us to focus on the positives and the enjoyment of a sense of risk and adventure, but let me bring you back down to earth for a moment. This person may be vengeful, and might tell your husband, or you might find yourself living in fear that he might tell your partner or make things uncomfortable for you. What happens if the affair sours and you still have to see this man when you leave your house or when you are shopping? I am assuming that if you see him around town, so does your husband. You’ve said that this man is your neighbour and you bump into each other around town. However, in reality, affairs are rarely as smooth going. You could have a secret affair with this person that you have a spark with, have some sneaky sex that adds some excitement into your everyday life, and rediscover your sexual self. Would a little excitement with my neighbour put some sparkle back into my life? I’ve felt so bored and unloved, and I miss connecting with someone.ĭr West replies: In theory, this might be great. To be honest, it feels like we are more like friends now, and our children have grown up and moved out. Sex with my husband stopped a long time ago, and neither of us make any moves to initiate it. Part of me feels excited at the thought of something happening between us. I bumped into him the other day and he suggested that he come over for a drink in a couple of weeks, when he knows my husband is away with his family then. He came over for a drink when my husband was here, and it felt weird - almost like my husband was interrupting us. Since then, we have bumped into each other in the local shops, and I feel like there is a spark between us. I couldn’t help but notice how attractive he was, and he was very friendly and smiley. Q: A new neighbour just moved in next door and called around to introduce himself.
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